Your relationship was written in the stars…. meant to be…. A match made in Heaven and all that. You found someone could not imagine being without, someone you thought you would share a life with. Things were so good. And then one day, he was gone. What happened? How could things go from so good to so horribly wrong? Is happily ever after still possible now? After all, you don’t want anyone else. Can you get him back, or are you destined to ride off into the sunset alone?
In his book, How To Get Your Ex Back Fast! Toy With The Male Psyche and Get Him Back With Skills Only A Dating Coach Knows, Gregg Michaelsen tells us you CAN put the pieces back together and build a stronger relationship with your ex. You just need the confidence and the tools to do it!
The choice is yours. You can lie in bed and cry for days in a dark room, or you can pull back those curtains and get to work. Make him realize leaving you was the biggest mistake in his life. It’s time to rock his world in seven easy steps.
1. Stop all contact (for now).
2. After four or five days, send him a short letter that turns the tables and makes it seem like YOU broke up with HIM. He expects you to be an emotional mess. Show him you are fine and prove him wrong. This is sure to leave a lump in his throat.
3. Be patient and regroup. Take some time for yourself (take a vacation or visit family) and keep yourself busy. This can actually do wonders for your self-esteem.
4. Change your routine. Make him wonder what you are up to (he WILL be curious). Date, if you can handle it. Let him think he’s losing you for good. Men are competitive, so make him jealous!
5. Turn up the heat. Post subtle pictures of you with friends, or out with a cute guy, having a great time. Not too many, just here and there. If he’s blocked you, respond to mutual friends now and then to show you are doing well without him.
6. Slip in and slip out. Confirm that it’s over, and then slip out of contact for a week or two. Then, slip back in. Text him no more than once a week, and don’t make it obvious that you miss him. Tell him you need to grab something that you left at his place, or ask him for info that tells him you are making changes in your life. Subtlety toy with his psyche.
Stop wondering how to get your ex back fast, and just do it! Happily ever after IS possible!
In his book, How To Get Your Ex Back Fast! Toy With The Male Psyche and Get Him Back With Skills Only A Dating Coach Knows, Gregg Michaelsen tells us you CAN put the pieces back together and build a stronger relationship with your ex. You just need the confidence and the tools to do it!
The choice is yours. You can lie in bed and cry for days in a dark room, or you can pull back those curtains and get to work. Make him realize leaving you was the biggest mistake in his life. It’s time to rock his world in seven easy steps.
1. Stop all contact (for now).
2. After four or five days, send him a short letter that turns the tables and makes it seem like YOU broke up with HIM. He expects you to be an emotional mess. Show him you are fine and prove him wrong. This is sure to leave a lump in his throat.
3. Be patient and regroup. Take some time for yourself (take a vacation or visit family) and keep yourself busy. This can actually do wonders for your self-esteem.
4. Change your routine. Make him wonder what you are up to (he WILL be curious). Date, if you can handle it. Let him think he’s losing you for good. Men are competitive, so make him jealous!
5. Turn up the heat. Post subtle pictures of you with friends, or out with a cute guy, having a great time. Not too many, just here and there. If he’s blocked you, respond to mutual friends now and then to show you are doing well without him.
6. Slip in and slip out. Confirm that it’s over, and then slip out of contact for a week or two. Then, slip back in. Text him no more than once a week, and don’t make it obvious that you miss him. Tell him you need to grab something that you left at his place, or ask him for info that tells him you are making changes in your life. Subtlety toy with his psyche.
Stop wondering how to get your ex back fast, and just do it! Happily ever after IS possible!